Its been long now i have been thinking about it ... Is it actually destiny or something else... i mean my grandma always told me that when we are born our story of life has already been written and she said we are destined to do whatever task we perform ..hmmm so is it like we are puppets or we are actors who have learned there scripts very well and when are born its show time for us as we play the roles assigned to us by the creator.. i don't know i do believe that whatever we face in our life is our destiny but what i don't understand here is how are we assigned with our destiny ...what is the criteria ..i mean why is that everybody has a different destiny and sometime the most deserving one has the worst in his pocket and if it is true that our destiny is already decided than isn't it unfair that we are not allowed to choose for ourself ..how would HE who is said to be the creator would know what would someone turn out to be when grows up and on what bases he can decide for us.... well i was once told by my teacher that we always have two roads to travel on and we are the ones who decide which one to take and it is completely on us what we choose ....so if our destiny is already been written so we are just fools to believe that we have chosen the road but the truth is whatever road we would have chosen the end result had to be same because its already been decided ....so if we don't succeed in life than why are we blamed ...why do people say all sort of things ...
AND why do we cry when we loose someone and why there is a WHAT IF ruling our minds .. why cant we come to terms with everything ..if we know this had to happen then why do we feel so bad when things don't go our way and curse our destiny .... why is that we become so hopeless ... i don't know what is it truth or just some lie i don't know what my grandma told me was actually the truth ..but then if destiny cant be changed then why have i seen people changing theres is it that it was there destiny to change what was written for them or something else ....
i am still wondering ...
megha
