DESTINY ....... IS IT FOR REAL ????

Its been long now i have been thinking about it ... Is it actually destiny or something else... i mean my grandma always told me that when we are born our story of life has already been written and she said we are destined to do whatever task we perform ..hmmm so is it like we are puppets or we are actors who have learned there scripts very well and when are born its show time for us as we play the roles assigned to us by the creator.. i don't know i do believe that whatever we face in our life is our destiny but what i don't understand here is how are we assigned with our destiny ...what is the criteria ..i mean why is that everybody has a different destiny and sometime the most deserving one has the worst in his pocket and if it is true that our destiny is already decided than isn't it unfair that we are not allowed to choose for ourself ..how would HE who is said to be the creator would know what would someone turn out to be when grows up and on what bases he can decide for us.... well i was once told by my teacher that we always have two roads to travel on and we are the ones who decide which one to take and it is completely on us what we choose ....so if our destiny is already been written so we are just fools to believe that we have chosen the road but the truth is whatever road we would have chosen the end result had to be same because its already been decided ....so if we don't succeed in life than why are we blamed ...why do people say all sort of things ...

AND why do we cry when we loose someone and why there is a WHAT IF ruling our minds .. why cant we come to terms with everything ..if we know this had to happen then why do we feel so bad when things don't go our way and curse our destiny .... why is that we become so hopeless ... i don't know what is it truth or just some lie i don't know what my grandma told me was actually the truth ..but then if destiny cant be changed then why have i seen people changing theres is it that it was there destiny to change what was written for them or something else ....
i am still wondering ...

megha

CRICKET .....ALWAYS BEEN SPECIAL TO ME

Cricket is a game always been so close to my heart and now that the IPL season is going on there is so much craze about it around me... well the truth is as a kid i really did follow the game and when i grew up i lost all the interest in it and it did come as a surprise to me and now again i am kinda started to like it and follow it ..well the thought was quite weird to me until today when i realized that the only reason i enjoyed it was because i was watching it with dad and he and i had so much fun while watching ..we used to bet on teams and had deals like who so ever looses cleans the house lol and i always won so poor dad had to do all the cleaning... and today after 10 years if i recount had the same kind off fun while watching cricket and then i realized how its not just a game for me its more than a game as it has always made me and dad get into our fun shoes and it has always been a treat for me to spend those special hours with him fighting,teasing,betting,and cracking poor jokes (both of us are quite famous 4 them)and much more as the fun does not stop and i love it so so so so so much.... i hope this bonding of me and dad never fades away .. no wonders people are so crazy about it as i am sure like me many people must also have there stories related to it ....
well all the best to all the teams i personally like DELHI TEAM (kinda bias u see ;))
always keep smiling
with lots of love and hugs
megha:)

HOW ABOUT SOME INTRODUCTION...

Its been 21yrs since i have started my journey of life ..hmm its been quite a journey till now .. born in the most loving family , made amazing friends , have some enemies but i guess its good to have some , visited places never imagine would ever go , have done crazy things with friends , experienced all kind of pains including loosing my 1st love ... well that was a experience in itself .. hmmm well love music and appreciate art , love the nature makes me go week on my knees its so vast and beautiful n so much to explore that one can never get bored of it..Admire my parents and love my sister , worship god .. i beleive in a higher power ... love basketball ... weakness 4 food ..love to cook and eat both .... and there are so many other things ... but will let it out slowly..

till then take care
megha:)